
situations such as camping and
cookouts, I started thinking about
one of the hardest points in my
life as a vegan. Even harder than
trying to eliminate all meat, cheese
and dairy overnight was the first
night I ate dinner at my
boyfriend's house.
I had never in my entire life been
called a "picky eater" before that
night, and it bothered me
tremendously. Since then, I've

found ways to get around being
seen as a picky eater and have
started collecting easy and
unique recipes to help make
with my dinner hosts.
The best advice I have so far is to
1) Don't spring your veggie diet
on your hosts at the last minute,
and 2) Be prepared to help with
the cooking.
By not giving your dinner hosts

fair warning about what you do
and don't eat, you leave them
feeling guilty about not making
something you can eat. But by
not being involved in the cooking,
you risk your dinner hosts
accidentally including ingredients
that you don't want to eat. Don't
assume everyone knows what a
vegan or even a vegetarian diet
consists of. My boyfriend's parents
still to this day offer me fish,
turkey and dairy. It's up to you to
be responsible for what's being
cooked for you. That's not

something you want to, or even
should, put on your dinner host
to take care of.
The last thing you want to do is
offend your dinner host though,
so of course you'll decide the best
course of action depending on who
you're dining with. If you're eating
at a close friend's house, you might
both be perfectly comfortable

cooking together. If you're dining
with someone you don't know as
well, cooking with them could be a
great opportunity to get to know
them better. But if they're offended
at the idea of you having to cook
your own meal to get it right, you
might instead just want to write
up a list of the less-obvious things
you don't eat, or at least discuss
the dishes they're preparing before-
hand.
Below is a list of some great sites
where you can find recipes to get
you started:

VegWeb
The Vegan Chef
Vegan Food
Vegan Food for Meat-eaters
Everyday Vegan/Vegetarian Food
Vegan Connection
Fat-free Vegan Recipes
Vegetarian Resource Group Recipes
Photos on the right are from
VegWeb. Links to the recipes are
in order from top to bottom:

Tofu Alfredo Pasta
Super Chocolate Cake
Angel Hair w/Onion Sauce
General Tao's Tofu Chicken
Vegan Cheesecake
Jumbo Stuffed Shells
Potato Pancakes






